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Where to actually get help

Pick whichever is closest. If none of them quite fit, that is normal, and telling us in your own words will get you closer than guessing.

• The workThe job is the thing you keep coming back to. Not because you are ungrateful for it, but because it takes the most hours and gives back the least of what you actually wanted.See what helps
• The point of itYou are not asking how to be happier. You are asking what any of it is for, which is a harder and more honest question, and one that most advice skips straight past.See what helps
• Who you wereSomething in you went quiet. Not gone, and not your fault: it just stopped getting a turn, for long enough that reaching for it now feels strange.See what helps
• The peopleYou are surrounded, or you are married, or you have colleagues who like you. And there is still nobody to tell. Those two things sit together more often than anyone admits.See what helps

None of what we link to is ours and none of it pays us. It is just what we would send a friend.

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